”, “Johnny has band practice tomorrow, can you pick him up? Often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years.
Nobody wants to be in a relationship that doesn’t grow.
Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.
Building a life with someone with constant progression and growth is necessary for a healthy relationship.
Just because he says he loves her does not mean that he will do what it takes to prove it to her.
The other woman must think about herself and whether or not she will truly be happy with settling for being on the side. However, whether she settles for what he is giving her or not, nothing will fix the fact that he is not happy in his marriage and he will step out on his wife regardless. My dreams consist of love, laughter, and living life to its fullest.
Finding someone to fill the void is much deeper than any feelings he has for the side chick. A lover of fine wine and food, I tend to break the bank of those who can handle me.
However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.